Core Concepts

The essence of the Gospel is relationships based on love

  • Everyone is obligated to learn how to love God, others, and ourselves
  • Our greatest emotional need as humans is to feel loved and accepted by our spouse, relatives, and friends. This is called emotional intimacy
  • Marriage is the most difficult but also the most rewarding of human relationships because it can provide intense emotional intimacy
  • Successful marriage is important in our theology, our civilization, and for our personal well being

Successful marriage requires dedication, work and growth; it is inherently difficult

  • Marriage is intended by God to help us grow individually and together as spouses
  • Successful, happy marriages survive and thrive on positive change; in turn, positive change creates greater intimacy
  • Resolving problems with authenticity and love enables us to mature as complete humans with the capacity for real intimacy

Improving your marriage involves learning important skills

  • Understanding yourself is the first step in improving relationships
  • We should seek new, better informed perspectives regarding ourselves, our spouses and marriage itself
  • Marriage can be enhanced by learning important relationship skills
  • You can improve your marriage unilaterally or together
  • Properly used, sex is a resource and tool that will prepare couples to address other marriage problems

Many of the techniques that improve marriage work equally well in our other important relationships

  • Children
  • Siblings
  • Parents